After I got my VCH I knew that I wanted more genital piercing. Not only for the incredibly heightened sexual response I got from the addition of such a simple piece of metal, but also because I felt more beautiful and incredibly feminine in a strong, powerful way. Taking charge of one's body is such an act of strength that the ripples spread throughout one's life.
At A Glance Author e bennet Contact e bennet@bme.anon When A week ago Artist Angela Studio Black Hole Piercing Location Reno NV I was hoping for a triangle, of course, but after some testing was well aware that I might not be suited for it. I also thought that my VCH was migrating, but was in denial about it, and realized that I would have to go to a professional to get the assessment, because no way would I remove it without knowing for sure that it was migrating.
I had pretty much already decided that I wanted a different piercer for the next one, as I'm one of those people that does things for fairly intense reasons, and I need to talk, to process it. I wanted a piercer that would be there for the journey and really listen to what I had to say. Hey, I demand the same of my dentist! Additionally, the woman that had done my VCH had only a year experience in piercing, period. No way would I consider letting her do a triangle!
My homeschooling group went to our local gay pride festival, where Black Hole Piercing had a booth. We stopped at the booth, and I had a chance to meet Angela, the owner of Black Hole. We talked for about 10 minutes about triangles, her experience with them, both professionally and personally, as well as other matters, such as Emla cream. I immediately felt comfortable with her, and told her that I would call and make an appointment for a consultation, and the piercing. You know how some people are 'cool' because they are trying really hard to be cool? And some people just are who they are so fully and completely that they radiate coolness? Angela is definately in the latter category.
We decided that the piercing would be an excellent anniversary present for me, which fell about a month later. When I called Angela, she remembered me, and after some schedule discussion, made the appointment for a Friday night.
I had just bought a new, beautiful dress that day that made me feel so sexy and powerful, I decided to wear that. On the way over, my husband and I were talking and he expressed he was nervous about the triangle (he had read the risks of them). So we decided that maybe if he didn't feel comfortable with Angela, or if I wasn't suited, I'd get two inner labial piercings.
When we got to the studio, I was so impressed with the comfort level. Its very homey. And the cleanliness! I went to the bathroom, and everything was foot operated, so that one's clean hands couldn't be contaminated. I've been in hospitals that I was less impressed by.
Angela and I discussed what would happen, and then she took us back to the room. She told me she liked my dress, and I was smart to wear one! She tested me for the triangle, and much to my eternal sorrow, it was not to be. It was so uncomfortable, just having her press there, that I knew that I wouldn't want a piercing. She said I was the most sensitive person that she had ever seen. (That's something I guess. ) She also looked at my VCH and told me that it was migrating, it wouldn't last much longer and that I should take it out. I immediately asked when I could get it repierced, and she said 2 to 4 weeks.
She marked me, and suggested that I get the two on my right side since that labia was larger. We got excited, and started talking about getting one on the left side, and maybe one or two more later on the right. (My husband loves this, because it means he doesn't have to go look for presents for me, he can just get me pierced!)
I lay back, and got clamped. For some reason, that always freaks me out – it frankly hurts more to me than the actual piercing. I momentarily freaked out and said "I don't know! I can't do this." Angela said "Boy, I'm surprised, you seem so strong and knowledgeable." My husband said "Honey, you had two drug free births." As soon as he said that, I, of course, knew that I could do this, and I'd regret it if I didn't. Angela made a joke about we push the kids out and then get pierced down there, and I found my source of strength. Deep breaths and voila! It was done. It wasn't bad at all, and the second one didn't even bother me a bit.
She showed me my new piercings in the mirror, while my husband ooooh'd and ahhhh'd at how beautiful they are (two captive bead rings, 14 gauge.) He actually said he thinks these are more attractive than the VCH, and he's very much on board for more labial piercings. In fact, Angela and he started talking about how many more piercings I could fit on my labia.
We discussed aftercare again, I put on my underpants and we left. So far, I'm healing beautifully.
I wish she had a punch card like they have at coffee houses! I definitely have at least 3 more genital piercings in my future, and I'm going to have my nipples done too. Then, who knows? Piercings are sooo addicting.