Last year I was studying to pass an aptitude test for grad school and it was one of the most challenging things I had to do. For about three months, I would meet my study buddy after work and we would study together... every single day... we lost our social lives. We knew the pain, the sacrifice, would be worth it once we were both accepted to school. Our lives would be on the path we needed it to be and although it wouldn't be easy, it would give us some peace of mind to know we were where we wanted to be.
At A Glance Author anonymous Contact anonymous@bme.anon When A year ago Artist Aaron When the exam was finally over, we decided we needed something to commemorate the pain we had voluntarily put ourselves through. Tattoos would have been cool, but not eternally pleasurable. Nipples? THAT would have been great, but summer was coming and we're both beach bums... we didn't want a ragging infection in our nipples. Belly rings... very high schoolish. One day I was at work and after having taken a 10 minute bathroom break (to masturbate... a girl has to keep herself entertained one way or another), I looked up body modifications to female genitals. A clit piercing perhaps? Once I realized what a clit piercing actually was, I decided not too... my clit is my best friend and I refuse to let any possible harm occur to it. However upon further inquiry I found that people pierce the flap of skin that hangs out right above it so that there is something constantly on the clit, forever stimulating it. I immediately called her to tell her what I wanted and she said she'd do it too. We decided to get a hood piercing- something to repay both ourselves and our partners.
There are two main ways to get a hood piercing done- horizontal and vertical. I decided to go for the vertical one so that the ring would constantly be in contact with the clit, no matter the ring shape. The horizontal one wouldn't be as constant.
I research studios and ended up going to one a friend recommended.
We went into the studio together and I volunteered to go first. This was my first (of many) body piercing and I didn't want to "chicken out." The pierce told me to lift up my skirt, take off my panties, and squat on the chair. Before I removed any clothing I told him I was on my period and that I had a tampon in, so there should be no cause for blood, but if it was okay to proceed. He said he didn't care so long as the string didn't get in his way. He also said I would experience a little more bleeding than normal because I was menstruating. I then lifted my skirt, popped a squat on the chair. He grabbed onto by hood and stabbed through it and I was pierced.
Stunned actually.
He pierced me with a 14g captive ring. He said that it would be the best way to prevent infection, and told me to spray it down with a salt water mixture after I urinated.
It bled a little bit, but nothing terrible.
Because I was wearing a loose skirt with no panties (I decided to keep them off), the train ride was the most pleasurable ride ever. I leaned back on the seat, put my bag over my lap and allowed my legs to flop open (this was a long skirt). I was sitting there with this gigantic grin on my face. OH MY GOD it felt SO good. I got home and refrained from masturbating because I didn't want to do anything to hurt my new piercing. The next day though, I went out with a boy I was kind of seeing and I told him about it. I didn't let him touch the area with out clothing in between due to fear of foreign bacteria, so we did the outtercourse thing (dry humping, etc). I have never come that hard from dry humping EVER. Dry humping has never been so good. It was about 2 weeks later that I had intercourse with my lover, and good lord it was phenomenal. He had been good before but this was beyond words. Actual intercourse is amazing because my clit is always stimulated.
Missionary feels great because his thrusting moves my body and his and that stimulates my clit.. When I'm on top, he reaches over and plays with the ring. When he's behind me he has one had over.
The only complaint I have is that a lot of men are afraid of ripping it by being too rough, or they won't incorporate ring play in oral sex because they can't figure out how to press on the ring with their tongue will hitting the ever disappearing/reappearing clitoris.
Because not very men have had exposure to this piercing, you may have to teach them a thing or too... which should never be a problem for any self aware sexually active woman.