I wondered for quite a while what it would feel like to have a ring in my clitoris. I had 3 friends who had it done; they all said the same thing. It hurt a lot, but it was definitely worth it in the long run. I talked it over with my boyfriend who thought it would interfere with our sex life....so I just kind of put it on the back burner. I forgot about it completely until we broke up after 2 years.
At A Glance Author Amanda Contact Amanda@bme.anon When Two years ago Artist Manny Studio SOS Location Calgary I was watching a stripper at a club downtown and when she bent over I could see the beautiful small bar she had through her hood. I was in love. I came to this site and looked over all the risks etc etc and realized I was terrified, so I put it off once more. I forgot about it once again until about a month later when I met a guy at The Taz downtown where I usually went on Saturday nights. He told me he worked at S.O.S on 16th Ave.
I got his phone number, went home alone and thought about poking a hole through the favorite part on my entire body. The stories I heard were tempting, but I wasn't sure if the thought of losing all feeling made me think twice...can you imagine never having a clitoral orgasm again?!?! I made up my mind in the shower the next morning. I called Manny, the guy I had met at The Taz and told him I decided to get it done. He thought it was great and joked that our first date would involve me on a table naked.
The appointment was on a Tuesday, it was pouring rain. I came into the shop not sure if I was shaking from being cold, or if I was scared. I think it was nerves. He sat me down and we talked, and finally told me to take off my panties and hike up that skirt to see if I could get done what I wanted. After what seemed like a year, he came up from between my legs and told me it was perfect, and it would look great. He told me not many people get their actual clit pierced, that usually they just go with the hood. I felt that having the actual clit felt more secure to me, basically more flesh.
We picked out a small hoop, gold because I have an allergy to nickel and I just didn't want to take the chance and have it reject or be stupid on me. He put my legs up in the stirrups and told me to look at the painting on the roof. He told me to follow it with my eyes and try to find the birds in it. This painting was amazing by the way. I almost forgot where I was until he put the anesthetic on. It felt like I had cut myself shaving. It was the worst burn ever. Then he tested to be sure I was frozen....even though I knew the freezing couldn't go deep enough into my clitoris to stop the pain totally. He clamped me, which I think personally hurt way too much. Then he made me take 3 deep breaths in, and on the last exhale he pushed it through. I thought he had sliced my clit right off. I screamed and swore. I lifted my ass off the chair, and he had to push it back down.
We waited for about 3 minutes before he put the hoop in, because I felt paralyzed by pain. Then he handed me the mirror. I was in love!! It totally turned me on to see that pretty little piece of Jewelry through my most favorite lump of flesh! I smiled and kissed him.....and it was the start of a beautiful relationship. Walking out wasn't such a great time. I felt like I was being pierced again every time I took a step. I got into my car and started driving.
I thought I was having great luck until some guy rear ended me on the way home. Oh my god I screamed. He thought he killed me when he pulled over with me to exchange info. I explained that I had just been pierced and he continued to apologize. I got home and for the next while did exactly what I was told to do, fill up the tub about a quarter ways and put salt in. No one told me that would hurt... I was quite surprised when it did! It was for sure love at first sight for me and my clit ring. It healed up nicely, and it even got me a new boyfriend. The pressure was off because he had already seen me.
Overall, a great thing to have done but if you don't deal well with pain then be prepared to scream I know I sure did! Feel free to Email me any questions you have, I will do the best I can to answer them all.
Amanda.