Yeah, it all happened on a dare. The best part about getting my PA was that I got it 4 free. I was at Legacy Imports which is a tattoo/piercing parlor with a little coffee shop inside as well. I happened to be visiting with a friend and her father and drinking a smoothie. Her dad was that type of parent who hung with all the kids and just wanted to be cool. I didn't mind so much since conversation with him came so easily.
At A Glance Author Drew Contact Drew@bme.anon When A year ago Artist Santiago Studio Legacy Imports Location Stockton, CA Somehow the topic of piercings came up and he asked what is the most extreme piercing I would get. I had been on BME many times and even written a story about my nipple piercings before so I had a few in mind. But overall I knew I wanted a PA most. I told him and he right out said I was bullsh*itting him. I'm not the type to talk the talk but not walk the walk so I stood my ground and said I wasn't afraid to do it. The truth was....of course I wasn't afraid....but I could not afford it at the time due to the fact that I wasn't working.
I don't know exactly where the whole dare came from...it might have been his desire to see me naked from the waist down or just pure disbelief that I had the balls to do it. The conditions of the dare went as follows. He would pay for the piercing as long as I let him in to watch and let him see it after it heals. He might have been thinking of getting one himself, I'm not quite sure.
After having a short chat with the piercer named Santiago (who happened to be very professional) all my questions about healing, pain and just general curiosities were answered. He picked out a 10 gauge 1" cbr out for the piercing and escorted us to the room after my friends father paid him. My friend was a bit upset that her father and I had this silly dare going but I was sure she'd get over it.
In the room as soon as I was in the chair, I began to sweat profusely. The piercer was playing some satanic sounding heavy metal and that made me even more nervous. I told him it was kind of bothering me and he put on the "Rent" soundtrack. he said he enjoyed broadway music just as much. He then went about setting up and made conversation with me all the while. This can be incredibly helpful when you're nervous.
I had already pulled my pants down and I was a bit disappointed with my little soldier. He'd shrunken out of fear. Santiago laughed when I told him that it wasn't normally that small. he said it was normal for that to happen, and actually better since less blood would be in that area. He marked the underside of my penis and showed it to me asking if that would be where I wanted it. Not being an expert on piercing placement i said it would do and he continued at whatever he was doing down there.
To be quite honest....it was all a blur up to the point when he inserted the receiving tube. I was looking at my friends father who accompanied me into the room and laughing about something or other when the piercer inserted the tube. I think he warned me before inserting it. Either way it went in painfully and almost made me jump. he then set it at an angle pointing toward the mark he'd made on the underside of my penis. he told me to take a deep breathe on the count of three and the needle would be through. I did as i was told and was thinking he had forgotten to stick it through. But he had done it already, I just didn't feel it. He then began inserting the cbr which was a bit uncomfortable but not too bad.
I was so relieved after he'd finished inserting the jewelry that I began to relax and my penis went back to it's normal size. When this happened all the blood flowed to that area and began gushing out. I'm not really bothered by blood so it was no biggie for me. It bled for a few minutes then slowed down. He wrapped it in gauze and pulled a rubber glove over it just to give me some room in there. He then advised me on aftercare which included sea salt soaks, dial soap and wrapping it in more gaze in a condom for a few days or until the bleeding stopped.
My friends father was surprised at me and was actually more excited that I'd done it than I was. The whole ride home i felt pretty brave as I always do after a piercing or tattoo and my mind began to wonder as I thought about my next step into individuality (which happened to be a tattoo on my back of a cross). The piercing healed pretty fast and I'm happy with it.
Now....before I end this story, I figure I should give you some sex pointers...which you don't always get in peoples stories. I happen to be bisexual so I have had sex with both male and females since getting the PA. I advise anyone with a PA who does not have one regular sexual partner to use condoms. When you do so leave more space than you normally would have left before the piercing. You want for the piercing to have it's own little comfy pocket in the condom.
If you are having sex with a guy, as with any situation you want to be gentle (at the point of insertion) for your own sake just as much as you would for your partners. Always(whether you are cut or uncut) rinse your penis or clean it well after urinating if you plan on letting someone give you oral sex. If you've ever smelled an unclean uncut penis before you know how disgusting it is. Unless your partner is into golden showers and drinking piss they will appreciate you cleaning up that area.
Same rules apply for females except they are even more sensitive during sex (or so it seems). Deep thrusts will hit certain spots you didn't know about and sometimes withdrawing and reinserting will get a rise out of her. I have never had a female partner not climax since I've gotten this done. So, yes, I would consider it a success. This is all I really can tell you from experience. Anything more and I would be lying. Hope I've been of some help and thanks for reading my experience