At first, like many, the thought of piercings made me cringe. I still accepted them but they sure as hell were not for me. As for genital peircings, hell no, get that needle away from me. But as the years went by my curiosity grew and eventually led to my first nipple piercing. From there came two cartilage and the second nipple. Then my lobes, then my labret, and now my brand spanking new PA. as for the peircings that I still own. I currently have my lobes at 15mm, my labret at 10g, one nipple at 14g soon to be 10g once I upgrade my pa to 8g, and my shiny new PA at 10g.
At A Glance Author anonymous Contact anonymous@bme.anon When It just happened Artist kelly Studio West coast piercing Location surrey BC
This story however is about my PA, so let me get started. I came upon the bme site shortly after my first nipple. Of course I had to check out the male genital section, being that I was a male with genitals and had to see for myself the horrors that lied beneath the trousers of a select breed of man. My attitude was still no thanks until I came upon the frenum. This appealed to me mainly because it looked very low key and harmless. I read about the frenum, studied pictures, talked to piercers and then asked my girlfriend (soon to be wife) what she thought. She of course supported it 100% being that she backs me in whatever I choose. I could tell that at first she wasn't really enthused about it, but after I showed her some pictures she was practically pushing me onto the table at the piercers. I however was in the middle of rugby season and was not about to make myself vulnerable. So alas the idea was put in the back of my mind with all the other life plans I had accumulate d along the way.
Now I am one of those people who check back on bme almost everyday just incase new things have been added. I love this site because it has given me so many ideas both in regards to piercings and tattoos. One day my girlfriend told me about the added pleasure for both parties as a result of the PA. This sparked my curiosity once again so instead of reading a story about a frenum, I switched over to a PA. After reading a few stories and realizing that the procedure itself was not as "hard core" as I thought.
One thing leads to another, and I find myself in westcoast booking an appointment for January 3rd 2003. I've gathered a group of friends who are all going to get pierced and I am pumped. It's 2 weeks and counting, and I can't wait. To pass the time I stretch my labret from 14g to 10g. I repierce my cartilage (then take it out because I am tired and can't fall asleep without rolling over onto them) and I even book an appointment for my second tattoo. Finally the day arrives and I call up all my friends. Well much to my surprise I am left standing alone. Everyone has either made themselves impossible to contact or they have come up with an excuse for not getting pierced. Well my girlfriend tells me that she will get her nostril repierced, but I am still choked about all the no go's.
A few hours pass and I find myself back inside of west coast. The time is now and I can't back out. I never actually thought about backing out because I was too nervous to think of anything. I went in there planning on using no anesthetic because I wanted to "earn" this piercing. I look up at Kelly and he asks if I would like some freezing, and I immediately say hell yes please. He gives me a q-tip covered in the cream and I head for the bathroom, I smear it in and out and basically soak my head. I then put the little baggy around it so that the cream stays on my and not my clothes. We chat a bit, time passes, and I am numb. I try to squeeze out whatever urine I have in me and then I hop on his bench. He tells me to drop em and I do. The shrinking hasn't fully kicked in yet. Here I am thinking to myself wow, I'm not going to look like a total dork. I lie down and he puts the receiving tube in. (the tube was about 2g. not what I was expecting but it slid in with minimal disc omfort.) As soon as the tube is in I hear this "oh man it's trying to run away on me". The shrinking had just kicked in. he carefully re positions the tube and then tells me to relax. Poke, I'm done. I feel some fidgeting and I ask my girlfriend if the jewelry is in. she says "yup". I then ask if there is a lot of blood, she says "nope" and then the blood started to come. All in all though a very great job done by Kelly. The pain was nothing like I expected, no doubt thanks to the freezing I took.
As far as after care has gone, I am using my dragon mist, and soaking him several times a day. There is some slight bruising and some swelling but I still only experience minimal discomfort. After the piercing I went and got inked, and then as soon as I was home from that I had a bath and cleaned out all the blood clots. Later that night I watched some porn hoping to see what would happen if I got an erection. It came, it seemed to be doing fine, I played with him a bit, but didn't, accomplish much.
The next day I went to work still doing well. My girlfriend picked me up and we went back to my house. We started kissing but I kept my pants on not wanting to damage my self. After pleasing her for a bit I couldn't take it. I threw on a rubber and went in for some gentle loving. Soft and slow, paying very close attention to how he was handling the activity. When the time came the orgasm was mind-blowing. Holy shit, way to go. That alone was reason enough to get the piercing. Now I am only at 10g but now I can hardly wait to stretch up and increase the pleasure. Now when I pulled out my girlfriend looked down and uttered "oh my god". I look down and notice a fair amount of blood filling the condom. I quickly head to the washroom thinking too myself what have I done? I clean everything off and there is no more bleeding. It stopped as quickly as it started.
That was earlier today and right now I'm feeling great. My PA is feeling healthy, and I'm getting ready to hit the sack. Now for anyone considering this piercing, you might as well do it. Just find a good clean place, and give it a whirl. If you don't like it you can always take it out. For the most part piercings aren't forever. Just pay close attention to your own personal comfort level and don't push it harder then you know you can handle. But in my opinion it is a very worthwhile experience